Friday, June 8, 2012

Marriage issues?

Ephesians 5:33:
However, let each man of you [without exception] love his wife as [being in a sense] his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband [that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly].
(Amplified version)

Ephesians 5:33 encourages love and respect.  This gives great insight into maintaining healthy marriages.  Marriages can thrive regardless of the problems they endure as long as the man continues to love his wife and the woman continues to respect her husband.  

For example, a wife is suffering with a debilitating disease.  This is a problem affecting the whole family.  However, it is not a marriage problem unless her husband wavers in his love for her.  A man who is the sole provider for his family loses his job.  This is not a marriage problem unless his wife loses respect for him.

Showering a woman with love is a challenge for most men and consistently respecting a man is a challenge for most women.  Such are the joys of marriage!  It takes diligence to stay aware and provide these needs for your spouse.  

As I practice respecting my husband, it becomes more natural and joyful.  My eyes are now open to how much he deserves my respect.  I am humbled and honored to be married to this great man.

I love this life!


Copyright 2012 
Leah Lambert Smith

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